Dealing With The End of ANY Relationship or Is it Just Evolving?

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It has been exactly 2 months to the date that I last posted on my blog. People have asked when I was going to start writing again so I felt that it was about that time lol I apologize for taking so long, but I’m back.
I have a lot of good stuff coming up to tell you and hopefully inspire you too. Good changes have been happening including changes in some of my relationships.

I’ve learned that the only way to hold onto anything or anyone is with open palms. Freedom is the greatest expression of love, and it starts with loving yourself in this manner. That way, you will ‘receive’ the gifts that are genuinely yours, and not waste time and energy trying to ‘gain’ what isn’t yours in the first place.

Let me break it down like this : You always attract to you people that mirror the level of consciousness that you are at in that time in your life. You’re always constantly in a relationship with yourself. People show up in your lives as physical manifestation of an aspect of yourself that you most need to see, embrace, or make peace with and heal. You are a vibrational match to that person as they come into your life at that time.

When ANY (friendship, family, business partner, family member, intimate) relationship ends, it can be one of the most painful things you experience in life.

A heartbreak.

Change is a part of life. Nothing lasts forever even the best things will one day come to an end. As you accept this you can focus on fully experiencing and appreciating each relationship while it is in your life.

But ultimately there is no end to a relationship, the form simply shifts into something new. It just evolves.

The real courage is to let go and allow the highest expression that is seeking to happen. The real courage is your willingness to let go of what you currently have so you can create something new.
The real courage is to love so fully that if a relationship ends you have no regrets.

As you grow and your consciousness expands those in your life must either grow with you or the nature of your relationship will inevitably just shift.

Just because the form of your relationship needs to change doesn’t mean the love needs to go away.

We often think that if a relationship ends the love needs to stop. When in fact to stay in a relationship that no longer feels right is in fact not loving.

To honor your authentic heart’s truth is the most loving thing you can do. In doing this you honor those around you too.

Dare to find the most authentic form of relating that can serve both you and the other person to love even more fully.
So rather than holding onto the way a relationship was in the past, feel what is most true now and what it is seeking to be today.

To stay in a relationship that is not truly fulfilling in the present is to be in a dead relationship. The relationship is a museum rather than a living inspiration.

Try asking yourself this, “If I met this person today would I be in a relationship with them today?”

Be honest.

When you first meet someone, whether a romantic relationship, friend or business partner, you gravitate to each other because you were a vibrational match. As you grow, so long as you both keep growing in the same direction at a similar pace, you can keep evolving your relationship. But if you do not there might come a point where you no longer are a fit.

As two people evolve, if you grow in different directions that no longer feels right for you both, it will put pressure on the way the relationship is currently set up.

It is important to remember that just because a relationship ends or changes form it isn’t bad. It just may no longer be a vibrational match.

If you are feeling a current relationship is not working ask yourself:

1) Does this relationship inspire me to be more of who I authentically am?

2) Do we inspire each other to grow, expand and evolve as souls?

3) What is the lesson that this person/relationship was brought into my life to teach me?

When you let go of the old relationships you create the space for the new ones to show up. Or simply allow the old relationship to evolve into something new with the same person.
Trust that following your heart and truth will lead you to exactly where you are meant to be for your highest good and all concerned.

Trust that God is abundant and will bring about your highest good.

Trust that the Love available is infinite. It never ends.

All forms change.

Only Love is real.

Thank you Kute Blackson for your insight.

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